Gone Fishin'

This is what Happens when you watch Where the Red Fern Grows on a warm Sunday afternoon. Adrianna found some clam shells. Ethan found rocks to throw.

There were two buzzards that made quite the show for us. It was definitely a highlight for the kids. They were determined and so comical while we watched and cars passed by.

We had a wonderful time.




We took this shot of Ethan and the sun for dad. It was his favorite part of the movie.

Of course the ladies stopped to smell the flowers. Adrianna was so cute to make sure she never stepped on any of them.

The boys explored the bank, and Ethan threw rock after rock.

7 with Spunk

We celebrated Alex's 7th birthday and he has grown in more ways than one this last year. Special thanks to Gramma Morgan for making the cake and Daddy for decorating it like a dino.Here he is directing his birthday song for us. We love learning more and more about Alex each passing year. And his natural talent for making people laugh is so fun. I heard this whole parenting phase is over in a blink of an eye. So I hope I don't miss the ride! It was only a few years ago....

A New Season

She was a vision in pink....

This is the begining of the Little Mommy stage for our only princess. I am sooooooo excited. It is amazing how natural she plays with her baby, now named "Aubrey". Thanks to everyone who came and made her birthday so special! We love you all.

Busted

Have you ever invited a new family over for dinner and found yourself totally cleaning out the house. I was dusting, moping, vacuuming, bathrooms-the works. Then come to find out they never got the message and were out of town. LOL I felt a tiny bit convicted my family wasn't my motives, but they still ended up with a fresh home. Then our scripture for the week was Do all things cheerfully and whole heatedly as unto the Lord, not unto men. That "not unto men", you can highlight! Sometimes this is

Men: I have a responsibilities, suck it up ...one more time with feeling.

Sometimes it's Men: I did it! will I get any acknowledgement?


When I let the Word of God decide what I do and why, men (people and their response) have nothing to do with it. Which means I get grace for the days there's just nothing to "suck up" and every good day with all my efforts and dust bunnies get written in eternity. My family and friends have no obligation to pat me on the back, just the joy of walking in a home cleaned by a woman who loves Jesus. Or loves the grace of Jesus: depending on what week you catch me ;)


Last weekend we had a wedding in Austin. I had the best time with some of our precious Marine Corp family. The kids had an incredible time with GG. Here are some hats from Magic time machine they all wanted to show off.
So Cute! (that's a hershey's kiss on her head)
This is my husband (left) "fishing" for Cpl. S


Nice, isn't it?


He's with me!


He looked like one of those English guards, I couldn't resist playing around.

T-H-I-N-K

So this has been quite helpful for our family lately. I read it in a devotional from by Greg Laurie

"Before you speak, THINK. Is what I'm about to say..."

True

Helpful

Inspiring

Necessary

Kind

Now you might say...of course! that's all common sense.

I don't lie. That's one thing I don't do......But how often have I maybe lowered the price I paid for that dress by "just the taxes" so it's not as bad when I tell my hubby.

OR... said "GOOD!' when asked "how are you today?" When the truth is "I am barely hanging on!"

But not just "true" my friend...It must be coupled with "HELPFUL" Lots of things are true, but not always helpful..."you just went over your calorie count for the day!"

I can count....thank you.

Then my biggest struggle...Inspiring. It's one thing to correct my children's behavior or share a struggle I see in my spouse. But it's key to inspire then to go beyond what is the now. To what God wants to be. The difference between dictating people and developing strength and character. One way just insults or criticizes but the other encourages and solidifies that I am "for" them and support them.

Which brings us humbly to Necessary. Why we think it's imperative we are heard on every flaw,I don't know! Lord help us!

It's possible it depends on the person at hand. Is what I'm saying needed for them to grow? Or am I seeking to make life easier just for me? "possible."~ I'm laying down nothing definite. I can tell ou I looked up the definition: being essential, indispensable, or requisite

And Kind....kindness matters. The Word says it's His kindness that leads to repentance. A gentle answer can can turn away wrath. That it can build a safe harbor for the wounded. Nothing troubles me more than to think I might not seem like a sincere, safe place to go when everything in their world is wrong.

Oh what Grace, which covers a multitude of sin. Thank you Lord that it is Your goodness that holds me to you, not mine!

10 Years and Counting

God has shown to be true, faithful and still willing to perform miracles! We celebrated our 10 year anniversary. We were married and with in a few short months destroyed all that was sacred in our marriage. With pride, selfishness, unforgiving, hurtful words, record of wrongs, expectations, demands, cold shoulders, and hateful thought patterns. Our marital vital signs were basically flat lined! So "what happened?" you ask. Jesus Christ. We went to marriage counseling at our church and they had a sneaky policy. They made us go through the Word of God and look at ourselves. THEN apply what it said to each other. The same power that raised Lazarus from the dead, was doing the same thing 2000 years later. I used to pride myself in how much I "loved" my husband. which somehow led to a dead marriage. But when I read God's definition of love, not proud, doesn't hold a record of wrong, seeks not it's own, patient and kind, covers a multitude of sin, hopes all things, endures all things, never fails. I was broken. His kindness compared to mine, it did lead to repentance. I no longer wanted to fix a marriage, I wanted to know Jesus outside a "Sunday school class". I wanted new life. We have learned God's love is perfect... when we are not. It won't fail... when we do. For this is real love, not that we loved God first but while we yet sinners he sent His son to die for us and take away our sins. We can love each other first because God has shown us to offer forgiveness for wrongs, and grace for the moment, until the next moment. One of my favorite songs from Sonic Flood proclaims:

What can I say?What can I do?

What can I bring to offer You?

There is no gold

No precious pearl

Nothing on earth that compares to You

Lord here I stand with empty hands

I will exalt the one who lifted me

Out of the miry clay to heights of eagles wings

Words cannot express

All I know is this

You've changed me

You've changed me!

I can remember how I used to be

I was so bound but now I'm free

I will exalt the one who lifted me

I've never known a father like You

A love that is strong

Gentle and true

You draw me close

Just like a child

Safe in Your arms

There is no doubt

This is my place

This is my way!

So here we are made new, and walking it out. Day to day. Experiencing the death and the resurrection of Jesus Christ. To die to ourselves for the benefit of others. And doing so by the power of the Holy Spirit. There is no way to love that way out side of God's grace and power. There just isn't. I never cared about anyone other than myself until I was reborn. If you don't have this kind of love in your heart like I thought I did but really didn't. All you have to do is ask for Jesus to be your Lord and Savior with His forgiveness. It will be given. God has no favorites and make no mistake, you were on His heart on that cross. If you have never felt this kind of love by anyone. Know that God does. He showed how much He loved you in His Son. You are loved with a perfect love, it never fails, and it's just waiting to cover every sin. And you too will be changed!

And by this the world will know you are my disciples, when you love one another.

~Jesus, Son of God and Savior offered to all

Grace (undeserved gift) and peace (a state of mutual harmony) to you!